LOVE MATCH

A few days ago I watched a television reality show called “Kontak Jodoh” (or Love Match). There were 4 boys and 4 girls that were being matched. They have to get to know to each other in some ways. In the end they have to push a button, if they are a match then the “love-sign” light will turn on. There was this girl on the show that didn’t push the button because she knew that her best friend is also in love with the boy that being matched with her. The boy pushed the button for her. After the show, I asked myself. Do we always have to be the one who sacrifice our heart and love for someone that we call best friend? At first I said, Hell No! If my friend is a good friend then he or she is the one who suppose to support me for my relationship, but then I think again, I have to say that the answer is YES. If you want to know how to love, you have to know how it feels of being hurt. If you want to know how full stomach feels, you have to know how starve feels. I agree it needs a very mature, big & sincere heart to do that but we have to go through that road. Hopefully after that we can smile and say:
I love you with all my heart…