THE TRUE GOSSIPER

I am a TG, a True Gossiper. I love to talk about others especially the bad ones. E.G., my chief is a very very cheap guy, so I and my nurses love to die to talk about his cheapness. And sometimes I curse him in the middle of our gossip (OMG what have I done?). Anyway, gossiping has become one of my ways to relieve stress. This morning I just did it again. I gossiped the chief again. Man, he is so damn cheap! I think it's ok to gossiping, as long as the person is not hearing it. I think it's ok to gossiping as long as we gossiping about the truth and the fact. What if I become the 'victim'? Actually, I don't really care what others might say about me. Because, I think only God & me who really know myself very well. So, it doesn't matter what others think about me. BUT it's very hard to find very objective persons. To have a very healthy gossip session we need objective people in it. Why? It's to avoid 'bonus tracks' on the topic that we're gossiping about. It's the devil's nature in us human to add 'elements', usually the negative ones, when we're gossiping someone or something. I myself have also a very hard time to do it. Because it's more fun when we add 'the negative elements' on our gossip. Why? I think it's because we don't want to be 'the black sheep'. We always want to be 'the right one' although we're wrong! So, to make gossip gives a dual benefit (for the gossiper and the gossiped) we have to learn to lift up the positive elements to surface. Hmm, let me try.
I think my chief is cheap because his parents are cheap too...