Yesterday I had a chat with my friend. From that conversation I found out that how easy people to forget about almost everything especially when they’re on an angry situation. We were discussed about how love can make us hurt. I told him that he has to seek the root, the cause; the ‘main thing’ that has drove him crazy or hurt. What I’m saying is if you don’t know what thing that really have made you upset then you cannot get out of the problem in an instance. We have to stop, seek inside us, think, and then us off to go. After I told him almost about everything a moment later he started to complaint again on the same subject. Gosh, he drove me crazy. I felt like I wanted to yell at him and say: “what is wrong with you dude?” but of course I didn’t do that hehe… I was too scared to hurt his feeling. Another lesson that I have learned was that anger or any negative emotions always stop you to think rationally. And I guess that’s what my friend just had. So what did I do? I just sat there and listened. After some times, he began to soften-out (yeah, and my ear has harden-out). And then he gradually started to saw the problem. Finally, he said: “Yeah man, I think I have to let go”. I was glad that he can solve his own problem. Did I help? Not much hehe… Well, it’s always true about old-sayings. “Always think with a clear head”.
Sssshhh, I am hearing me…
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